Field Report: Pulled a bartender’s phone number
This went pretty much by the book, which is great. It was simple. I was at a networking function last night and I started a tab at the bar. I went to get another beer and the girl who got it asked me what my name was again. I immediately teased her about it because nobody is allowed to forget my name! I wouldn’t tell her. The other bartender remembered my name and said it out loud so it was even better.
Later I came up to the bar and got another beer and she looked at me and said “What do you want?” in a playful voice and gave me a big smile. Awhile after that I was sitting at a table talking to my friend on the phone and she was walking by. She stopped, looked over, and gave me a HUGE smile before she continued on. I gave her a little nod and a slightly sly grin. At one point after that she did something and I told her that the relationship was over…we were breaking up. That usually works great!
I was at the bar a decent while longer talking to some poeple and having a good time. I decided to make my move so I told her to get a pen and paper. She came back with it. I told her to write her name down. She did so. I asked her if she ever had anybody analyze her handwriting. She was excited about that idea. She came back over and I told her to write her number down because I didn’t have time to do it at the moment. She said she couldn’t write down her number, but she could write down a number. I told her to just write her number down. Being strong and telling them what to do is what they want anyway. She writes a number down. I talk to some additional people and I leave.
I call the next night and it was a fake number. I was surprised because she gave me strong signs that she was attracted. It’s no big deal; it happens. I’ll just save the paper and next time I go in I’ll go up to her and ask her what kind of silly shit she’s trying to pull… give me the right number. I’ll hand the paper right to her so she knows what I mean. I was extremely confident at the time so I didn’t check it. That’s one thing you can do when you’re there to make sure it’s a kosher number. Just call the number and see what happens. If it’s fake, call her out on it and tell her to give you the real number.
To become a dating coach?
I’ve been thinking lately that it would really be cool to be a dating coach. A guy who has achieved many of his goals and who can coach other guys up and help them to improve their game. If I’m going to be a dating coach, by default I’m also going to be a life coach because of all the self improvement work that goes into becoming better at dating.
I will have to not only have tons of knowledge but I will have to be able to apply it successfully and consistently in the field in front of an audience (my students). I will have to become a great teacher who can analyze my students and point them in the right direction. I will have to be a great motivator and be able to inspire confidence in any man, even one who thinks a situation is impossible.
The main thing I have to do at this point is to reach a level of personal ‘mastery’. I have to really put my all into it every day in every situation. I have to approach women with reckless abandon, be ultra alpha and non-reactive as well as outcome independent. I know what I need to do. Now I must execute.
Here’s a page with some info on how to be a top dating coach. It’s written by a dating coach. (I haven’t checked out any of his stuff but what he says here is all true.)
http://www.ehow.com/how_5039643_top-dating-coach.html
Protected: A Quick Way to Get a Girl’s Number
I’m going to keep this very simple and rather self explanatory. I learned this from Brad P. You’re probably going to laugh, but concept is so important that it’s worth repeating. Following this simple concept will help you everytime, all the time in your interactions with women.
1. Don’t be needy.
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10. Don’t be needy.
Bonus! 11. Don’t be needy!!
