Never, never, never ever lose your composure around women!! Never let them under your skin. If they somehow do get under your skin, never show outward signs of it. This is much more difficult than it sounds. Depending on what point you have evolved to on your personal development journey, this may require a lot or a little bit of work.
The fastest way to have a woman all over you and in love with you is to always keep your composure around them. (Learning how to keep your composure all at times in your life in general is also very healthy.) To be solid as a rock around her. This branches off into being witty, etc. also but if you don’t have the basic composure underneath it all you’re screwed.
Just why IS composure so important? I’m glad you asked. Enter evolutionary biology to help us out. Women throw “tests” at you to see if they can trust you. They need to know what your “true” character is, because by getting involved with you (having sex) the end result may lead to a child. Is your offspring likely to generate future offspring to keep her gene pool going? Or are you a dud who’s offspring would be weak and not likely to mate with other women, thus ending her gene’s propagation on the planet earth? Are you strong in the face of adversity or will you cower at the slightest hint that everything is not ok? Can you stand up under pressure or will you wilt under the heat? Can you stand up to her? If not, you surely cannot protect her or stand up to another man.
How can you pass these tests? Keep your composure.
As you progress, you can then learn how to throw in being witty and cocky/funny (which is basically being witty) as responses to her tests. They will up the attraction level greatly. You can also ignore them. If she says something that you don’t like, sometimes you can just not respond and act like you didn’t even hear her. Example – I once asked a woman to turn down the window air conditioner in her room because I was cold. She said “You’re so needy.” It wasn’t a bad voice tone, but who knows where it could go if you start talking about it. You do not want to get into anything about neediness (unless you accuse her of it somehow). I didn’t say a word, jumped on the bed and did my thing, while she turned down the air, and everything was fine.
You can also laugh and act like you think it’s cute when she’s testing you (or anytime she throws a hissy fit). You really do think it’s cute. Do not get upset like Napoleon Dynamite would, for example. Act like James Bond, Clark Gable, etc.
The below video clip shows a great example of how to keep your composure around a woman who goes ballistic. The “composed-guy” part starts around the 3:00 mark. Enjoy.
What are some general characteristics of someone who cannot keep his composure? They may shy away from social contact, be stubborn and indecisive, be easily upset by frustration(s), think of themselves as unworthy, become immobilized by stress, be mistrustful and/or prone to jealousy, and they may overreact and have a strong temper. If someone has these traits they are more likely to lose their composure than someone who does not have these traits or someone who has these traits but who has them under control.
Those who can keep their composure are more socially competent, they are less likely to go to pieces under stress or become rattled under stress, and they embrace and pursue challenges instead of giving up even in the face of difficulties. In general, they are the opposite of those who cannot keep their composure.
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